Please share with me your thoughts and feelings regarding physical relationships (ie, where to draw 'the line'). I'm struggling with this right now, in part because the Bible -- as far as I know -- does not directly address the topic. I abide by the law of abstinence. But there's a significant gap between holding hands and having sex. Where do YOU draw the line? How did you determine it? Is there a universal rule for all of us? How does modesty factor in?