Kids today are bombarded with messages from the popular culture about looking sexy and being sexually active. They know all about hook-ups, friends with benefits, oral sex and "safe sex." But what do they know about protecting their hearts? What do they know about deeply respecting themselves? What about the emotional consequences of early sexual activity, especially for girls?
Our local church is sponsoring a talk this weekend called "Romance Without Regret, " conducted by a couple, Jason and Crystalina Evert. From their website:
"Some think that "chastity" simply means "not having sex." But that's mere abstinence: what you can't do and can't have. Chastity is more than that, it is about what you can do and have--right now: a chaste lifestyle that brings freedom, respect, peace, and romance without regret."
"What can save the marriages of tomorrow? In an age in which the media tell young people that they cannot -- and need not -- control themselves sexually, Jason and Crystalina's message to students from junior high school on up is challenging, entertaining, encouraging, and healing. Get the healthy and correct Catholic male and female perspectives on living chastely as you listen to their life-changing message."
At our church, their presentation (1.5 hours) is required for middle schoolers and high schoolers in the Confirmation program. Some 600 students from our parish are attending. This program is being held at several private and public schools in eastern Massachusetts over the next week. See this schedule of schools and times. Most of the programs are open to the public, but you need to contact the coordinator listed on the schedule ahead of time. Jason Evert's website, the Pure Love Club, is here.
I'm attending a presentation this weekend, and will let you know next week what the program included and how it was received. If anyone has already attended any of the Evert's program, please let us know what you thought.
Hi Mary,
I heard them this past August and they were excellent--the pair gave an extremely powerful presentation. I would add that you don't have to be Catholic to find their perspective valuable.
In short, if anyone ever has a chance to hear them, go for it!
Posted by: Wendy Shalit | March 22, 2006 at 09:14 PM
I heard them speak at my high school during my sophomore year. At the time they were about three months away from their wedding date, so they really were speaking about what they practice.
I really enjoyed their speech. Part of their message didn't really hit me until later... I suppose that it needs to sit in one's mind a bit. They are very talented speakers, so this certainly won't be "just another chastity talk." And because they have some real life experience, their message has some practical credibility. Overall, a wonderful experience.
Posted by: Josie | March 22, 2006 at 11:30 PM
Haven't had a chance to see them live, but I saw their presentation on DVD. It was excellent.
Posted by: Shawn Grubbs | March 23, 2006 at 03:18 PM
Jason spoke at my highschool this year...he was amazing! His talk was so inspirational and you can relate with him because he's young, not to mention pretty cute. He made us laugh the whole time while still sending the message across. =]
Posted by: someone | March 08, 2007 at 04:09 PM
My Psychology class watched the video of Jason's and Crystalina's talk and it really got through to me. It touched me.
Posted by: Christine | May 02, 2007 at 08:01 PM
Hi there could you please tell me where we can get your books & DVD's in Australia PLease.
God bless your vocation
Posted by: Cornelius Gordyn | May 15, 2007 at 04:27 AM
You can get their materials at www.pureloveclub.com
Posted by: someone | May 27, 2007 at 02:09 AM
What is Jason Everts Email... I Have Some Questions For Him To Answer... Its For A School Report
Posted by: Michael Blaskowski | March 05, 2008 at 11:31 AM
Hi Everyone, GOD is indeed great!
I'd come across Jason and his wife through EWTN and what an inspiration. Now my wedding has been finalized (Sept '09) and requesting for all your Prayers.
I remember Jason had said a quote from a Saint (in one of the EWTN shows) that he told his wife, about wedding, that, the both of them would help each other get to Heaven. I was wondering if someone remembered the exact quote and the Saint... it would be great if you could mail it at binmath88(at)yahoo(dot)com.
Thank you very much...
Binoy A. Mathew
Posted by: Binoy A. Mathew | July 15, 2009 at 08:21 AM